THE Tool To Change Your Life

We as humans deserve GREAT lives! 

We’ve ‘made it’ here – into this incarnation, we’ve ‘made it’ this far (how many years is it for you?). 

If you look quickly around you, at your life, are you happy?


Yesterday I felt stressed and tired – and had a sneaky moment of wondering about my life. Am I happy?

I have a full life with my husband, his business, my spiritual development mentoring work… we have busy days!

Yet sometimes for all of us, the ‘implementation’ can take over our attention – and our hearts can suffer.

So…. Let’s get to the point fast here – 

HOW can we stay in that bliss state, ALL the time? Don’t I have to figure out the logistics of my life too!

Yes…. But….


What is my priority? THIS is THE ETERNAL QUESTION of our lives.

Let’s slow that one down…. What. Is. My. Priority?

I mean – say if EVERYTHING is falling apart around you – (here is the finer clue) – WHAT is the FIRST thing to do to change…. things. Everything, actually.

So, when you feel you can no longer stay with your partner, or you’ve just been fired from your job, or a loved one is gravely ill, or you can’t even pay your phone bill – WHAT is the single ONE THING that creates a change in THAT dynamic.


(I’m being guided to write all this of course… and that smile was from ‘them’…)

Well - THE best and MOST POWERFUL single action you can take – in that ‘disaster’ moment is this:



2. Close your eyes.

3. Breathe.

4. Ask yourself WHAT would you prefer? (Yep it takes a lot to focus on that in that moment – agree.)

5. Then slow your breathing down – RIGHT DOWN.

And that, ladies and gentlemen – is it!

It is not difficult. (Well actually focusing on what you prefer can be tricky in that moment – but it makes the entire change of circumstances.)

And here is why:

(This by the way, is being dictated to me by my Spirit Tutors as I write… Let’s see what they say!)


WHEN you take your amazing mind, and place your ATTENTION on WHAT YOU PREFER – two extraordinary things happen:

1. Your body’s biochemistry literally changes – triggered by WHERE you point your attention. In this case your attention is swinging to THE MOST positive idea you can have from deep down.

2. You open a psychological DOOR in your HEART.
By simply – and authentically – identifying what YOUR HEART PREFERS your unconscious – and your inner heart – ‘sing for joy’. 

You give your deep inner self in that moment, PERMISSION to feel your truth. And this sends a shot of ‘feeling-of-freedom’ into your subliminal self.

How is this useful?

By giving your deep inner self a brief sense of honesty with your genuine preference – the ‘feeling-of-freedom’ shot travels to your brain.

And guides your next thought.

From a base of deeper freedom than before.

And this – can be lifesaving.


Take a second look at this information – I suggest.

Roll it around on your tongue like a delicious flavour. Get to know what is being said here.

So that – next time you feel blocked, afraid, in panic or just fed up – you have THE SEQUENCE.

And you KNOW what to do – to switch the machinery of your ‘self’ back to feeling GREAT.

When we feel our deepest truth about what we prefer – our entire psychology and biochemistry responds. We LOVE it!

We, in that moment, feel hope.

Just because we’ve UNDERSTOOD our truth.

Now – just quickly – feeling our deep preference isn’t about – do I prefer chocolate or vanilla.

It’s about – do I stay with this person? Shall I act on my life’s dreams? Shall I take that opportunity? Shall I surrender to my own amazing power and talents?

Shall I get happy doing what I love?

That is ‘preference’ coming from the deep place of your heart. 

FEELING your soul’s truth you could say.

Preference – is a small word. Yet feeling it honestly - changes you. 

And can prompt you to make changes that before were too hard, not feasible, unrealistic, the list goes on.

And – directly from my Spirit Tutors:

“Feeling your soul’s preference empowers you to step into your higher potential.”

All that – just from a moment of feeling your preference!


Blessings – and enjoy practicing noticing your preference…

Alicia Power 
Master Intuitive

Master Telepath, Energy Healer and Soul Activator Alicia Power delivers direct-from-Spirit education on 'how' to awaken step by step. Her own 37 years as spiritual adviser give her deep knowledge on the stages of soul awakening. As a former journalist, Alicia clearly communicates simple tips that change your life and help in your empowerment journey. Alicia is a consciousness thought leader, psychic researcher, blogger, author of numerous on-line courses, videos, and products. She is a regular guest speaker on global tele-summits, leads her own tele-seminars and webinars, is a feature writer for lifestyle magazines, and shares her knowledge on radio interviews. Her inspirational Twitter feed has over 59,000 followers. 

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